Comments on: House Wife

By: janders

janders — Wed, 08 Jul 2009 08:28:23 +0000

The biggest and most important gift you can give a child is your time and attention. This is invaluable and will be with them all of their lives.

You are wise beyond your years for understanding this now. I hope you some day are blessed with the children and family you desire.

By: noaverag3joe

noaverag3joe — Fri, 08 May 2009 23:21:16 +0000

wow, that was very well written and insightful Bree. It is refreshing to see a woman who values tradition and see’s the responsibility of having children as being an important one. As a man, I know that we have a ‘built in’ desire to provide for the ones that we love and woman have a ‘built in’ desire to nurture those that they love. While my wife and I have been apart for about 6 years, she wanted to be a ‘stay at home mom’ and I very much appreciated her commitment to our children and saw tremendous value in having at least one us available when they needed us. In many ways, she made a sacrifice that I am grateful for and so I naturally was perfectly happy to continue supporting her in full after we separated. She is not a lazy person by any stretch of the imagination and yet I know my kids were better off having their mom available when they needed her. Bree, you sound like you are just as beautiful on the inside as you are on the outside and it will be one lucky guy who wins your love and affection. Love, Joe

By: PW

PW — Tue, 14 Apr 2009 05:35:12 +0000

First, thank you for being so open. It has to be difficult to maintain such a healthy perspective working in a world with so many, uh, complicated personalities, not to mention the depressing assumptions made about you. (Have you seen the movie, The Wrestler? One of the things I quite liked about it was Marisa Tomie’s character. Yes, she strips for money, but she’s also a caring woman in a tough spot trying to be a good mom, protect her private life, and keep her dignity.)

You’re clearly pretty smart, having gotten into Purdue and selecting a major that is one of the more demanding. Also, some of your other comments on this blog show that you’re ambitious and have a very good sense of business and how the world works. So, I wonder whether you’d really be happy without a career that gave you more intellectual stimulation than children and marraige. Don’t get me wrong! Raising healthy, happy children and keeping a marraige going is tough; however, it’s not mo-bio or art. I know a lot of suburban mom’s with good marriage’s who gave up their careers, typically law or finance, to stay home. Everything is wonderful, but they really miss the opportunity to excell and to grow their minds. Do thoughts like these ever give you pause?

All Best – PW

By: rosey

rosey — Mon, 06 Apr 2009 03:28:43 +0000

I think everything you said is great, but I’m not sure if it’s the only way for a happy and healthy child to be raised. Your way definitely has everything that would be needed to provide a great childhood, but I can’t help thinking about that saying about it taking the whole village to raise a child. I applaud you for writing this though. If more families could have been like this, the world would probably be a nicer place. I’m really curious about what your opinions of home schooling are. Anyway, thanks for writing this piece, it really got me thinking.

By: Ken

Ken — Sun, 29 Mar 2009 01:41:36 +0000

I’ve been reading Asia Carrera’s blog for about 12 years… before they were even called blogs she was doing one. I’ve seen her go from where you are–young, active pornstar–to settled-down, retired housewife and mother of two beautiful children. She is always busy and madly devoted to her kids.

Visit http://www.asiasbulletin.com/

By: Steven

Steven — Tue, 24 Mar 2009 23:01:20 +0000

I agree with the other posters. You’d make a great mother, Bree. I know you are having fun now, but you really should settle down with a good guy and have a child or two one of these days. Hey, I’ll volunteer! *grin*

You really _are_ an excellent writer and I love how your stuff comes right out of your heart. You’re a no-BS kind of girl……very attractive to me.

By: Dave

Dave — Mon, 23 Mar 2009 03:29:04 +0000

I have to say that is exactly what I wish I could find. Is there any way we could meet and see if tha tcould by lucky ass.

By: Michael

Michael — Mon, 16 Mar 2009 12:06:54 +0000

I cant say enough how nice it is to here how grounded you are and that you still have traditional values given your current profession. Someone lucky man is going to be blessed when he marries you. I only hope the entertainment industry does not change you in the upcoming years.

Wishing you all the health and happiness in the world. XOXO

By: Rainman

Rainman — Thu, 12 Mar 2009 20:07:41 +0000

I am really feeling what you said on the house wife tip. But, with a new generation on the rise with kids being more informed about sexuallity and diversity at a young age. How would your attitude change torward society and all what you have said, if you were to marry outside your race or your children dated other races?

By: silvrado

silvrado — Wed, 11 Mar 2009 20:00:30 +0000

hats off to u.. after reading this, one will be like – am i in a porno’s website??? after reading this, one will realize u r not jus an object of desire, but also that u r a very sensible, intelligent person unlike majority of the other pornstars..

and i’l admit, i like u more for the person u r than ur pornstar status.